Thursday, February 2, 2012

Love and how it goes

Love is.......

Well before everything else that is cheesy and mushy, let's go back to the basic.
Love is a verb, an action word. Thus, when we love, we act, we do (hahaha) something.

We say these "I love you"s a lot but we don't really know its meaning. And for me, we only start to love when we act. When we do something to make this feeling known. How? There are so many damn, stupid, awesome, amazing and splendid ways. Maybe it depends on our individual personality.

When two people fall in love:

They trust each other. No matter how nervous, worried or dangerous it could be, we trust. Why? Because it's a way of submission. It's a subliminal message of love. Someone told me that love and trust entered the dictionary at the same time. When we love, we trust. We cling to whatever reason, strong, weak, even impossibility, because we believe this feeling will see us through anything.

They doubt. Oh, what the hell am I saying?! Hahaha. This part, I'll be brief but concise. We doubt once in a while... for whatever reason, it varies. And if you'll say you didn't, well whoever doesn't doubt himself commits the sin of pride. Thing is, don't let it eat you. Love is stronger than doubt.

They cherish. Because life is love and to live is to cherish. By transitive rule, when we love, we cherish the moments we spend with each other. We treasure it with all our hearts.

They argue. Because loving is also a struggle for there is individuality. One way or another, there would be differences. A wall they have to break, or a wall they'll start to build higher. But when love is true, no matter how big or small this wall is, it can break through anything.

I'll have to break the blog post cause sleep is a necessity. But let me end it just like how I started.
Love is a word, an action word. Therefore it has these verb tenses too.

Loved, love/loves, will/shall love. (spare me, let's pretend I only know the basic tenses)

Those who are loved: Let's learn from whatever experience that we had. As I have always said "walang nasasayang na experience". Most of all, be thankful. We may not have kept that person but at least, we have these moments that will always live inside our hearts.

Those who are in love: Seize the day. Spend everyday as if it's the last. No one knows the day nor the hour. Remember, to live is to cherish. Trust him/her with your life, if you can't do that someone else might be able to.

Those who will love: If you prayed for rain, prepare to receive it. :) That is called faith. Have faith. It can move mountains. Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe.

To you whom I love and will love... Let's strive to be better than we are because...

"When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too."
- Paulo Coelho

I love you baby. :)


Fie Angela Concepcion said...

Nice thought Larry...

but it would be nicer if you included how the Bible defines LOVE ^_<

1 Corinthians 13

Thanks for sharing anyway.
God bless.

Meshai Kin

Fie Angela Concepcion said...


dibidiboy said...

Im not Larry... But thanks for the comment. :-)